wow goq how many people do you have inside you? are you schizophrenic? jk 🙂
but yeah i think you need to talk to her honestly. i can imagine that her taanos are not coming from nowhere, and she seems very sensible by the way she is trying to compromise. before you get all hurt and break off the whole thing, try to view things from her perspective- “ad shetagia limkomo”. which, by the way, is good advice for life imho.
lots of big deals come from small misunderstandings…