Reply To: Girl I want to get engaged to wants me to change my Rabbi

Your answers were all really helpful. But I talked to her about it again and she said again that she doesn’t mind it if I talk to him but she doesn’t want him to be her Rabbi when we get married which meabns that if we ever have a problem she would want us to go to someone else. I am thinking of breaking up with her because of that. She got offended by him for no reason and the fact that she doesn’t want him as a Rabbi after all that he did for us shows that she is judemental and unappreciative. I am still thinking of breaking up with her but I don’t know what to do. Your inputs into all of this are really helpful and I would like to continue to hear your answers.