It’s true that once married the girl usually goes with the boy’s Rav but if she has a problem with him then I am sure that even your Rav if he is not a controlling Rabbi and he is good and sincere he would even tell you that you should pick a Rav that you are both comfortable with. But this is absolutely not a reason to break off a relationship. If I was in this situation I would tell the guy that if he doesn’t agree to change his Rav once we get engaged/married then I will break it off with him myself because the fact that he doesn’t want to compromise on something like this is a big red flag.
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