dial427436,
Many of you state “I don’t really know or am sure that I don’t have all the info on the topic” then you give very harsh criticism. With the little info you do know, why the hard words for this young man. you can’t rebuke unless you have the whole story.
In this case I disagree. Usually the difficulty in assessing threads is because we only hear one side of the story, and we can’t really judge the other side without hearing it too. In this case, however, the side that we are hearing is offensive by itself, and there is very little new information that could change that.
For example,
whether she has good points or not I don’t really care
is an extremely toxic thing to say or feel in a relationship.