“Zeh borrer lo echad v’zeh borrer lo echad” (in the first or second perek of Sanhedrin.) It means that each litigant (in this case, the chosson and kallah) selects a rabbi, and the two rabbis together choose a third rabbi. Normally, it’s used to make a Beis Din of three; in this case, the couple would agree to choose a “family rabbi” based on the agreement of each of their personal rabbonim.
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