Reply To: Girl I want to get engaged to wants me to change my Rabbi

If it were me, I probably would think twice before marrying such a woman. Sounds controlling, and regardless of what offended her (maybe she is just ultrasensitive?), she is demonstrating a middah that I would find distasteful. I can’t imagine my wife even entering into this discussion; she says if I am comfortable with my rav to ask the deepest of shailos, I should stay with him.