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Lior–Your point is? Yes, she was childless, and that was the reason for the divorce. That is a totally valid reason for a divorce, that is not an inherent fault in the person. There are many other totally valid reasons for divorce thaf are not because if an inherent fault in either side. You would turn someone down for a shidduch because there parents are divirced, without even knowing why?

There are many divorced people who still maintain a civil and cordial relationship, and are therefore able to bring their child(ren) up better than if they were married. Yes, better, because this way the child sees their parents having a goid relationship.

I agree that if the divorce wrecked the child, but that is now a problem in the child (whatever caused it set aside, this is a problem for marriage). The factt that the parents are divorced is immaterial. How the parent’s relationship affected the child is not immaterial, but to turn someone down simply based on their parents’ being divorced is disgusting.

What I’m trying to say is it’s based on how the kid is now, not base on the parents’ marital status. There are couples who constantly fight and een have physical abuse, and this affetcs a child terribly, while their are divorced couples whose children learnt the good lessons from their parents.

And people moan and weep about the shidduch crisis.