Zahavas- yes, there’s pressure to saying yes. But it’s definitely an option to say no. We’re not forced.
But you have to understand, that after one or 2 beshows, most pple don’t have a good reason to say no. They don’t see any more than their parents already found out for them
We basically trust our parents A LOT.
Many of these marriages work, some don’t.
To say whoever has more divorces is nonsense. You have good marriages in each community, and then you have ugly marriages too. It’s the same everywhere.