Zahavas and Feif-
In my very Chassidish community, a couple that divorces over petty stuff, gets the stigma, and pple tend to frown upon them.
HOWEVER, a man or woman who ran away for a valid reason (abuse or other extreme situation), is IN NO WAY different than one of our regulars. No one judges them in a negative way. Most people in the community even support them for divorcing.
You people all know about 5 chassidish people, and that’s your view about the thousands of Chassidim worldwide.
Open your eyes a little and get to know the different Chassidish people before judging.