Feif, you are trolling again. Your entire point is that some chassidish people only marry to have kids, so beshow makes sense for those few? OK, similarly some of your cultured people only marry to gain a trophy and show their worth. So for those too, a beshow is suitable. No,even a beshow is too much, they should just need a picture and a few numbers.
So lets start a thread abput this, and word the OP carefully so that most people will think you are implying something about the entire MO community and then watch you folks get all defensive.