@Smart there were some Bianers (Not sure of spelling), Skvaers there and quite a few Lubavich (Ive known a few Lubavich in my life)
I was recently at a chassidic wedding in New Square (At that beautiful hall just outside the main part of town) I dont know what kind of Chassidim they were though.
I also recently met a Bobover at a cousins house.
I dont think Ive ever met a Ger, Vishiz or Belz.
Most of my family is Yeshivish not Chasidic, so frankly I am more familiar with that crowd.
Hashem creates emotions and feelings, for instance Hashem creates Hunger for a reason. Do you think Hashem would create something BAD?
Maybe you dont know the reason for it, but it doesnt mean its BAD.
Since Hashem doesnt create BAD things, how could a feeling that Hashem created like infatuation be BAD. Hashem created it for a reason