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Why are we so afraid to mention the whole topic of physical attraction that when it is mentioned, it’s twisted into a befuddled bemuddled “someone who you do not find unattractive” ??

Because the more a couple love each other, the more attractive they find the other person. If a man is married to a beautiful woman, even the most beautiful woman in the world, if he doesn’t like her for who she is, he will get bored of her looks. As for a woman, if her husband treats her improperly, even if he is gorgeous, she will start to hate his looks. But, if they have a marriage with love and she respects him, his looks will appeal more and more to her depending on how well their marriage is faring.

Singles who think they have to marry a 10, only think so because they don’t believe the above.