Reply To: 3 most important qualities to look for in a shidduch

DY: I think proper attention to grammar inherently shows good Middos.

coffee addict: That’s not what the Gemara says. That’s what the girls would say to persuade potential suitors. The Gemara makes no mention of if/how right they were.

To answer the OP: 1) He/she needs to not be a moron; 2) He/she needs to not be Joseph; 3) He/she needs to not be Popa.