OK Oomis, heard you, got it.
No mothers.
What do you say when a guys wants to see a photo before he dates?
Looks are subjective. And he wants to see for himself how she looks before they go out. So?
And btw, you’re making me very curious where you live/ what community you’re part of. You mention often how important it is for a girl to be neat & for a guy (found this on another thread) to brush his hair and teeth and shower (!!!!) before he goes out. I never came across a guy (or girl) that needed instruction in basic hygiene before a date. Admittedly some look more pressed and put together than others, but unbrushed teeth (Ewww) ? What gives?