Not trying to preach, interjection.
Trying to figure out- What would you do if you tried to redt a shidduch to a guy and he said he’d only listen if he got a picture?
-Would you grit your teeth and get one to send?
-Would you drop the whole thing?
And what if you were not the shadchan but the girl (or girl’s mom)?
-Would you give your photo to shadchanim?