Reply To: 3 most important qualities to look for in a shidduch

The way I heard it:

For a boy:

1. Has a Rav

2. Davens with a minyan 3x a day

3. Has a daily learning seder

For a girl:

1. Middos

2. Middos

3. Middos

And for the boy, 1a, 2a, and 3a are middos.