A relative of mine married thinking that he was a top guy,
being that she was a top girl she didn’t know what to do when she was shown otherwise.
my thoughts on such matters is that if the guy has nice middos, is a pleasant boy (generally around his in laws)than it doesn’t equal divorce…since that’s an essence of a human everyone wants a loving, caring, fun spouse yet if let down by the profile told to you than it takes time to move over and accept yet stay strong in area’s and beliefs.