It’s disappointing that this is considered normal, but lying in shidduchim isn’t unusual. Some people will say what they are expected to say and then act otherwise. Sometimes people like the shidduch so they don’t pick up on any red flags. Hard to know what really happened here, but it doesn’t sound like something to get divorced about. However, the wife should keep a keen eye on his behavior to see if anything else he told her were not true. Again, if he is decent, then she should be able to live with it and if i were she, i would not make a big deal over it. People change over time and you can’t hold them to certain thoughts and hashkfas for a lifetime
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