Toi: 1) I don’t like alcohol, 2) I don’t like drunks (the type that make a chillul hashem).
If my rov in Yerushalayim, who is one of the 6 dayanim of the Badatz, says there is absolutely no chiyuv to drink wine (or to sleep), that’s good for me and I do not see any need to take other deos into account.