@Yid: You are so correct. Many of our fellow tribesmen and women don’t realize that if one is Modern doesn’t mean one is not frum. Many Frum, Modern Orthodox people belong to the Young Israel and Yeshiva University movements.
I know many frum men and women who date long term. Perhaps they were burnt from a fast-paced shidduch that didn’t work out and decide to do what is comfortable for them.
@shlishi: This site is open to all whether Chasisdish, Litvish, Modern Orthodox, BT, FFB, etc. So, please don’t allow yourself to be so naive to think that only Charedai (spelling?) people visit this site. There is more than one “type” of Jew. We don’t live in a shtatel in Poland in the 18th Century.