#I dated someone pretty seriously… and then it didn’t end up working out. A teacher that I was close to in high school told me the following that helped the situation not bring me down.
A guy and a girl dated for a long time, and then broke up. The guy was devastated, so he went to a Chashuva Rav about it. (forgive me i don’t remember the name.) And the Rav told him not to be upset because if he would’ve married her, it wouldn’t be possible for them to have kids from that union.
My point isn’t that every break up is like that….
my point is that Hashem has a plan, and though, sometimes we don’t understand it, and it is hard, and sometimes almost impossible, He has a plan for us, and it’s a good one, the best possible!