Just for the record re: women reciting the zimun over the wine being a “disgraceful matter,” disgraceful matter does not necessarily mean something is assur. Personally, I wouldn’t seek to do it, but there are many opinions by some rabbonim that something is not so appropriate for a woman to do, but it is not intrinsically assur. Many rabbonim hold women should not drive, but they cannot actually asser it. I am perfectly content to let the guys make the mezuman, but I have heard of women eating together in a zimun and bensching that way.
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