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I’m not sure if the “your” in your post was directed to me. But I am not saying that Yeshivas should have a mandotory nach seder. In actually dont think there is a solution. I am just pointing out a very real problem that exists in our Yeshivas with their single minded focus. Again this doesnt mean the single minded focus is wrong ch”v, it has a flaw but overall MIGHT be the only way to produce bnei Torah.
Keep in mind, once leaving Yeshiva this becomes less of a problem, since outside the daled koslei hayeshiva, people can be celebrated/appreciated for a variety of things even if they arent “cut out for learning” whether it is the baal chesed, succesful in buisness (lav davka ina financial sense, I mean in a way that helps people, though financial sense woks for some people too. ) Or even “merely” raising a nice family, most peopel can and will achieve at least one of these, giving them the sipuk they need. Yeshiva guys have just one thing. Learning, and even that is limited to one mode of learning.