Weve gone s long way from the original commenter. Regarding the original comment and to answer the question if it us a reality the answer is simple. The couple look at themselves and ask. Is the husband suited to learning in a kollel all day. Does he have the desire and ability to do so. Yes, no? What about half a day? Is she ready, willing and able to shoulder much of the financial responsibility? What expectations do they have if their spouse in terms of “help” and are they ready willing and able to commit? Have they spoken individually and as a couple to their rebbe or madricha regarding their goals and do they agree that those goals ate suited to them? Stop looking at e everone else, get hadracha fpe yourself ad an individual and as a couple.
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