yekke2: well he was actually talking about loud music at simchas and food was number one on the list. He said that it used to be people had one type of fish for gefilta fish a one side dish some chicken and meat. Now people need 3 types of gefilta fish, 3 side dishes etc. He said that people should have it buffe style instead of leave food on the table to avoid over eating, and that having to buy such food causes lots of extra stress on the family. Do these pesach hotels charge lots of money and offer fancy expensive food?
No one is banning anything. Perhaps they are different problems. Perhaps often they are not related. But maybe sometimes they are related.