Do you have someone who you trust who could do it for you? A religious aunt, cousin, friend, neighbor? Maybe a teacher or mechaneches you connected to? You definitely should not be doing it yourself. And I agree with @DaasYochid the oorah rebbetzins program is great.
Counseling For Jewish Singles
The Rebbetzins Network
Oorah’s Rebbetzins program provides mentors and shaddchanim for singles of Baalei Teshuva background.
Rebbetzins Events
Oorah’s Rebbetzins host events throughout the year inlcuding a weekend retreat as well as local shidduch and Rebbetzins get-togethers
Rebbetzins Forum
Interesting discussions on the topic of shidduchim.