Part of the problem is folks like you making excuses for them or defending them, rather than someone in their lives–maybe their rebbeim–to give them mussar that would help them grow. I assume we’re not talking about 10 year olds, but these young men who are old enough to get married and have kids, should be a little more mature. My comment about the yeshiva, is that if they are little better than those who are not in yeshiva, that in itself is a problem, but obviously, you don’t see much of a problem here.
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