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September 19, 2014 1:05 pm at 1:05 pm
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oomis
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If only people stopped submitting “resumes” for what is a non-job-nterview, stopped doing extensive “research” for the non-term-paper, and just let people meet each other in a comfortable way, without being taught their entire lives that there is something inherently immodest about that, maybe we would see things happening in a much more pleasant way. I said it before, I will say it again – I HATE THE SHIDDUCH PROCESS as we know it today. Life was much easier when I was in the parsha (and we didn’t call it a “parsha,” it was just plain dating).