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It’s very nice that you dont want to talk negatively about BT’s but i dont think it’s a fair discussion when anyone who has the opinion that BT’s may have a higher risk in certain life areas is called a sicko.

Personally, i look up to BT’s and admire the tenacity they must have to go thru such a life altering change. I believe anybody who happens to meet a baal tshuva, even for a few short seconds, will walk away in awe and inspired in their own personal yidishkeit.

As some pointed out- where many of us only serve hashem thru rote, most BT’s have their entire heart body and soul in the avoda they do. This however can also lead to bumps in the road. When the spark, or explosion rather, of his connection to yidishkeit isnt there, or fizzles at times, it may be much harder to continue with his commitment than it would be for an FFB.

Oh, and i dont think anyone asked if they think theyl have troubles down the road would dream the answer would be yes.