#(I have a half a mind to answer you in latin, but poor mods…)
It isn’y close minded of you, It’s a matter of hashkafic standpoints…
I remember last year, I was in my teacher’s lounge, and one teacher was telling the other about someone redt to her son, and how she was checking her facebook pictures. I remember then thinking how different it is for me, (that was when I just started dating…)
But, unfortunately I feel like so many more people have facebook today for so many different reasons. Be it work, discounts… (I dated one guy who told me he only has facebook for candy crush lives…)
It used to be very important to me that the guy I marry should not have social media such as facebook, instagram, snapchat…. It still is, but, I find it much harder to say no to a guy because it is so prevalent and needed in so many ways…
It may be similar to texting… I remember when I got texting in 9th grade, I was the bum of the school… Now who makes a deal about it?