justsmiles613,yes, its a really painful discovery, but that “friend” who quite was really me. and yes, it was a very very “frum” boss who just didn’t chap boundaries. (for those of you who remember, i came on with a thread “quitting! Help” or something to that effect)
now i really hope no one who worked there or my boss will find out the true reason for quitting. (it was the main reason, there were a few others though)