Shidduchp, as a self-proclaimed Shomer Mitzvos Jew, has it occurred to you to consult a Rav? That’s how it’s usually done when we wish to clarify obligations. Although I must admit there is an interesting trend developing before my eyes where the CR is becoming the preferred address for Halachic queries…
If you are sincere and not stamm a troll or bored teenager, I would suggest clarifying your obligations with your Poseik. If you are truly about to begin a relationship k’das Moshe v’Yisroel, you will find your Rav to be an invaluable asset and resource.