Joseph
Are you just a jew hater and just trying to make everyone say what you want them to just to prove your point? Apparently you don’t realize what others do, that this scenario is totally impossible and makes no sense for a whole list of reasons to long to list. I gather you are a very bitter person who hasn’t found his shidduch and are looking to find fault in people in order to say “that’s why you’re not married”. I’m sorry for you and wish you lots of hatzlocho. Hope you find the right one soon!