Reply To: Getting married and no money

I was citing a specific case. Of course the size of the doesn’t matter. Young couples, and it appears their parents, have no hasaga on what it means to support themselves. I agree with you, and there is no detectable movement to see to it that young couples should be self-sufficient at all.

Daas Yachid: It is precisely thinking like yours that has led to oversized weddings. Anyone who gets insulted over this has some growing up to do, no matter the age. I am sure they will get over the hurt, and if not, and the next time the insulted one doesnt invited the insulter, gamzu l’tovah.