mazal77 – I hope you see this.
Although your last posted four years ago on this topic, I just happened to read it. I hope your situation is not worse than it was back then. Your post is on target. You deserve and will receive a lot for managing and caring and loving; not everyone is able to handle it.
Some spouses do not become involved and that can be tragic for the diabetic. The illness is the cause of severe depression and this escalates the diabetic’s condition.