sit down with your spouse NOW & make a budget. instead of going out twice a week go only once & by the time yom tov arrives you will have more then enough money saved for yom tov & maybe even to buy your wife something nice.
today we live with 3 cars & 3 vacations etc… a year & then we all wanna know why we don’t have money. isnt it common sense that food, clothing & tuition come way before these?