Think Big,
My insensitivity is not at all CV to thsoe singles who need shidduchim.
Its just that people very often post without thinking!
Yes, we must do our hishtadlus but the zivug comes WHEN its bashert and not a second before!
Professional Shadchonim are plenty and they get paid VERY handsomely, in some instances where the shidduch doesnt even go through. Shadchonis is the MOST DESERVED REWARD and YES it is very very appreciated. Many non professional make shiduchim as well because its abig mitzvah, There is no need to labe l THEMprofessionals because the are . pLease dont underestimate the hakoras Hatov people have to them.