kapusta, what? You’re asking me to openly admit that I’m the nicest??? jk. Yes, that is often what they’re looking for-validation! They don’t need anyone to tell them that they’re bad, they already tell it to themselves. They need to hear what is good about them. I’m no psychologist or anything of the sort, I have come to these conclusions from experience and observations.
What should I say to her now? I don’t want to say that I’m happy she didn’t do it because she shouldn’t be doing things to please me. I want to tell her that she made the right decision or something like that. Please advise, all advice welcome here, and it’s perfectly fine if you’re younger than me, I will listen to everyone.
moish, hmm…. I’m having second thoughts, maybe I should tell her to come here, this place is totally addcitive.
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