I agree that one should consider if it’s a comfortable silence or an awkward one. If each of them is comfortable with the silence, then I guess it will be OK. If they do get married, they will have something to talk about, but it sounds like neither of them have much of repertoire of topics outside of the basic marriage-oriented one. If they are talked out, is it possible their dates were all talkies, and no activities? In your list, it seems the discussions didn’t really include any personality issues–likes, dislikes, habits, hobbies, outside interests, fund things they like to do. If they haven’t discussed these things, I suggest they do
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