Jerusalem reader: I wasn’t judging anybody, just making an observation. Every situation is different. I do have three married children, with families, who made Aliyah. B”H, each made it work in their own way. I also know many people, with children who made Aliyah and they adapted and are making it work too.
There are also plenty of people in the States, who have not made Aliyah and aren’t really making it there either. You can’t blame making Aliyah for their struggles. Unfortunately, that happens no matter where you are.