Don’t listen to anyone who says that its different for each person or that it depends on situation.
Like anything else in life, the important things are standard.
We all need to eat. All need to drink. Doesn’t anyone say, oh, eating? Depends on the situation.
Does anyone say, oh, sleeping? That’s not for everyone.
Does anyone say, oh, getting married, that’s not for everyone.
There are real solid answers for what you should discuss at every step, and don’t let the ignoramouses confuse you.