to answer your comments and questions:
yes, pursuing a dead topic more than once appears high level to me
im not nervous and dont appear to be so but you do seem to like to throw in those types of comments so ill just move on
do some discussions get under my skin? actually, no, not at all. people’s behaviors do, tho. when the questions/comments/discussions are creepy, rude, condescending, or obssessive (to name a few) it does raise red flags by me.
i already stated above that it was not recent. in fact it was long enough ago that i wouldnt even know where to look for it, had i had an interest in doing so.
i do find many responses and posts get you nervous tho. you seem to over-respond or ignore them altogether. just noting…