As far as day to day interactions, I try my best to treat everyone I meet with kindness and sensitivity. Affiliation does not affect that.
Agreed. I was very nice to the female conservative rabbi I met last week.
The difference between my approach and the Moetzes is I want to show people the postive points of view and not the negative points of view
How would you do that?
If we followed your approach of not condemning, the mostly innocent lay people would never know that they are following leaders and a movement who are outside of the pale. Now they are given a fair chance to rejoin Orthodoxy.