BTW>>>>
I posted earlier with our solution to this problem.
A good part of my practice is family law. This is not a Jewish problem, it is a universal problem. Many marriages have suffered from unscheduled parental visits and interference in the younger generation’s lives.
An earlier post made reference to situations where the parents are still supporting the married couple. Financial support does not mean that the parent has the right to intrude physically at will.
Each member of the couple must voice concerns to his/her own parents and establish working rules/parameters for visits.