I know someone whose inlaws wanted to make a deal about having a milah inside a hospital, not in a shule. When I say being polite but firm to made their business, this is the sort of idiocy I was thinking of. Todate, my friend has had only girls.
Also, when you’re in your mid-20s you’re more polite and effusive. When you’re in your late 30s . . . the nonsense leash you tolerate from monkeys is a great deal shorter. Not after that much life experience. No one tells you what to do. No.