Reply To: Coming home late from work

No, I did not want to marry a professional necessarily. I married someone who was learning and had a plan for parnassah for when the need would arise. My husband’s plan happened to have been accounting. My husband is an auditor so it’s not just the April tax season. He has various busy seasons throughout the year. And no, I never needed the “big bucks” and still don’t. And yes, I do work part-time. I was just wondering if he is staying late because he really needs to (in order to keep his job) or because he is an over-achiever and/or thinks he needs to work more in order to earn more (which we don’t necessarily need). I guess right now it’s hard cuz I have no friends where we live so I can’t do as aries suggested. It’s not like I’m bored; I have 3 kids under the age of 3 and I’m working and have to prepare for work. It’s the feeling of loneliness on those nights, needing to go out sometimes (and not being able to), and wondering if it’s all necessary…