Although i agree that this is a serious and personal issue and the CR might not be the place to discuss it, i think that as long as you take the advice liberally, it can ease your anxiety by hearing other people’s take on it. I do think you should be secure that you know where he is. I think it helps to catch up on the ‘normal time together’ on Shabbos, as, even though, your case sounds very extreme, many people do work late hours/two jobs/night seders – – more like 11:30-12:00 though , then 1:00 AM. As far as the loneliness, I know it’s not a solution, but tapes,shiurim on chazak phoneline, phone friends, reading, projects you can do – all help to make the time more bearable.
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