Reply To: Are the girls causing their own shidduch crisis??

@ubiquitin: I am sorry to say that: 1) from a frum perspective and having bitochon there is no reason a young 22 year old boy sitting and learning needs a “plan”. Look at the thousand of boys who have gotten married without a “plan” and are b’h doing great even financially. Apparently their “plan” is to trust in Hashem, which in my humble opinion is a great plan! 2) From a business point of view if your at the lower end at the bargaining table (even though it’s unfair) you don’t get to call the shots.

Needless to say if there is a legitimate reason of course she should stand firm and not give and get what she rightfully deserves.

@popa_bar_abba: You may not realize but there is in fact a lot of work being done behind the scenes.