In That Particular Seminary, the girls are presented with the concept of “Mr. Zee” who seems to combine many different characteristics that are “wrong”.
Technical20, haven’t you ever met someone, be it a date or a girl you met for the first time, and at first it doesn’t seem like you have anything to talk about until one of you hits on something that just rings a bell? I have. Most people have. I’m not talking about getting into a car, and it’s a mess, and the boy is gruff or sloppy. I’m talking about nice, presentable Yeshiva guys with warm personalities. Obviously, there are those with whom we may never form a connection, but please, give it a chance!