My daughter went to BYM and absolutely loved it! Very academic but there is an option to take lower level tests. The teachers are very very warm! The girls range from modern to very yeshivish there is always something nice going on weather G.O activity in the morning or a speaker in the afternoon great school!!!
Than there is BY of Ramapo they only accept 30 girls leaning more toward yeshivish side. Not as academic as BYM
Brewers is a mix of main-stream to modern to chasidish
Ateres is becoming more yeshivish than they used to be very fun school. I believe there isn’t a uniform.